But over the two short years I’ve been here, I’ve dated a really diverse group of men. A guy I hooked up with recently texts me — I’m tempted to invite him over, but we work together. My Uber is nine minutes away and he’s waiting with me. I’m happy I landed in New York for my first job after graduating, but breaking news isn’t my strength — I prefer human-interest stories. Until I moved to New York, I never dated white guys. He texts me to tell me that his lawyer friends will be there. His friends dwindle as we sit at the bar, talking about our backgrounds. Drunkenly, I tell him about the married man at work. A cute white guy lets me go in front of him in line and we start flirting a little. Sometimes women get weird around attractive women — even the ones who are just as attractive. After a couple of tequila tonics (don’t knock it until you try it), I’m feeling great. It’s not a big deal to me either — I just have no interest in being anyone’s “experiment” or ebony fantasy. He says he’s been with his girlfriend three years … So far, her high-profile relationships have all been with men.
” I’m looking at her, studying the way her idealistic conviction seems to be coming into conflict with her southern propriety and attraction to me. “But I just think it’s more constructive to focus on the positive things the black community has at its disposal rather than perpetuate a compounding victim narrative that makes a group of people think they’re doomed before they even try to achievesuccess.” This date turned Senate hearing drags on, and in spite of how painfully awkward it gets, Leslie never wavers or wants to change the subject. Even I have my limits for social discomfort, though, and eventually, recognizing the need for some sort of peace offering, I flag down our waiter and order two shots of Maker’s.
In a big profile at Business Week, Musk says he would like find a girlfriend for himself. "I would like to allocate more time to dating, though.
"I think the time allocated to the businesses and the kids is going fine," Musk tells Bloomberg Business Week reporter Ashlee Vance.
I give my lower lip what I hope appears to be a flirtatious bite in an attempt to keep my face from fully telegraphing my ire.
It’s been a while since I’ve been out with someone who shares my love of that Netflix show with Idris Elba, and I’m tired of watching it alone.