He also brushed off a chance to set the record straight without lying.Second, there's the issue of expectations you two have not discussed.In most parts of the Internet (and even to some extent in our enlightened corner of it here) posters treat women and men very differently. Male posters sometimes do not get many responses but a female poster making the same statement will get lots of responses.So, many men (or boys) pretend to be women (or girls) in order to have more people talk to them.Adult entertainment is one of those markets and it has the virtue of a low barrier of entry.
Two main issues are in play here: honesty and uncommunicated expectations.
I discovered that he's been surfing porn sites and going to chat rooms to have sex with other women online.
When I confronted him, he didn't understand why I was upset.
With backgrounds in transactional platforms [...] the founders were looking to build an online transactional community/social network.
[...] There are very few markets that attract customers willing to pay simply for socializing and only for digitally deliverable goods.